Nobody’s Perfect

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A little while ago, I did a video and blog on how I was inspired by the movie Encanto to talk about the sister, Luisa. Luisa bases her self worth on her strength, and I saw that as Attribute and…

Book Me for Speaking Engagements!

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Have you got an engagement you believe might be a great platform for my message? Contact me to inquire if I am available for your event, workshop or summit. In-Person Engagements This past November 2021, I was an official speaker…

Passive vs Assertive vs Aggressive

We’re all familiar with what “passive” and “aggressive” mean—the two extremes—where one is a person who feels “Less Than” and doesn’t speak from their healthy center about their needs, feelings, and desires, and the other is someone acting from a…

Judgment vs. Contempt

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As I’ve been talking about self esteem, I have introduced you to concepts of the Center of Equality and Better Than/Less Than. The Center of Equality is where you say: I stand equal to all. Eye to eye and toe…

Self Esteem vs Self Confidence

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The Vickey Difference What is the difference between self esteem and self confidence? Are they the same thing? Are they different? Do they overlap? They aren’t the same thing, they are different, and I don’t even think I’d call it…